Headaches

Migraines run in my family. They started with my late grandmother Dorothy, skipped my father, and went on to my daughter Michelle. 

I've always suffered from heachaches, dating back to junior high school. They usually hit on Sunday night, fearing the next day at school. I was "bullied" before it became a thing, and I not only stood up to these two guys, but reported it to the school principal, who straightened them out pretty quickly. We became friends, and one of them even protected me from other kids in school.

He learned his lesson then I threw him to the ground and told him what would happen if he did anything to me again. 

The headaches went away.

Over the years I had "normal" headaches, and either Tylenol or Advil usually took care of them. Recently, my headaches have been horrible, and I spoke to my neurologist about it, and it's most likely tension headaches because they are at the front of my head.

He gave me a prescription called Amitriptyline, and it is taken at night as one of the effects is drowsiness. It helps with the morning headache, like the one I have now. As soon as I'm done, I'll take a couple of Advil, which will help with the headache and the back pain.

My daughter takes Propranolol which is taken every day to stave off those lousy migraines, which can ruin anyone's day. And I mean a full day full of nausea, pounding head pain, floaters in the eyes and dizziness. I count myself lucky as not having those.

When I saw my primary doctor, I told him about this, and would my blood pressure cause the headaches? I knew the answer, and he said yes. He gave me yet another blood pressure medication, and to take my blood pressure every day. I do, and while there has been some improvement, it's not down in the normal range yet. It can take up to 6 weeks for it to take full effect.

So a headache is not always a headache. Ask your doctor if you think anything is out of the ordinary, it can save your life.

 OMG Those Big Pharma Ads

How many times a night as we watch "Regular TV" are we bombarded with multiple ads for medications we didn't know that we needed?

The most annoying by far is the song and dance one for Jardiance, a diabetes medication. I take that, and thank goodness I don't have the many side effects that quickly run across the screen. Two things happen to me, I have to pee quite a fee times a day, and sometimes it has a really bad odor to it.

I asked my doctor about that, and he said it was a normal circumstance to the medication. It's converting all the sugar in your system, and that's one reason for the frequent urination and odor.

Then there are the ones for Rinvoq and Humira, which are for psoriatic arthritis. These ads make you to not want to take them!

Then there are the ads for the diabetes medications that are being used for weight loss. I take Monjouro, starting at the 2.5 dose, going up to 5.0, 7.5 and now the 10.0 dose. I have lost about 30 pounds in over a year due to taking it, along with going to the gym 3 times a week.

Wegovy shows people singing and dancing in the street, saying how much weight they have lost. Look at the screen crawl about the side effects, and what you have to do to lose the weight. Diet and exercise are the key things. I have cut out a lot of junk food, but I still love my cookies, cakes, and other sweet stuff.

The most depressing ads are for the lung cancer pills. They are not a cure, but a life extender with so many side effects it makes me wonder are they worth it? My mother had lung cancer, and was on one of these medications that didn't do much for her. At the end, she decided to stop all treatment.

Now I watch the streaming services much more that don't inundate me with all these ads.

Gas VS Electric

 

I've always had gas powered cars, but was always fascinated by alternate energy ones. For most of my life, I've read Motor Trend and Car & Driver and always devoured them cover to cover.

They have done stories about hydrogen fuel cells, natural gas, electric, and even solar powered cars. 

Here on Long Island, many of the bus lines are powered by natural gas, so I don't understand why cars aren't.

The amount of energy and labor it takes to mine the minerals for lithium iron batteries is crazy, and do you know where most of those rare earth minerals come from? China.

Our new president wants to impose 25% tariffs on imports from China, and even Canada and Mexico as well. He also wants to let the tax rebate offered on electric cars expire, so now that $7500 many people were counting on towards the purchase price is going away.

Is there such a thing as an affordable electric car? Right now, the least expensive are from General Motors, and even then, their promise of an electric Equinox at $25,000 is false. It now starts at $30,000 for a base model, and goes over $40,000 for a well equipped model.

Compare that to the gas version which is easily $5000 less. When I bought my 2020 Equinox LT 2.0 Turbo model with the Comfort and Convenience Package, I paid $27,000 with tax and after a rebate. Had I gotten the non turbo model, it probably would have been about $2K less, but that was the car that was available in the color and packages I wanted, so I got it.

That 2.0 Turbo engine came from the sister Cadillac model and was available for only two years. The gas mileage isn't as good, but it is fast!

One of the other reasons I wouldn't go electric is that my house would have to upgrade from 100 amp service to 200 amp service. That cost is anywhere from $5-10K, and then you have to pay and install the charge. 

I honestly don't think that electric cars are going to take over the US, and here are the reasons. 1) The cost difference over gas. 2) The cost to buy and install the charger. 3) Range fear is a very real thing. Right now most electric cars have a range of 300-400 miles, depending on the model, and of course the weather. In cold weather like we have in the Northeast, the battery range will decrease in the cold weather. 4) Other than Tesla, there are no reliable charging networks available across the country. Many manufacturers are making licensing deals with Tesla, which means the consumer has to buy a new plug and/or adapter. 

Imagine you want to drive from Florida to New York. To be on the safe side, you're going to pre-plan your route and look for charging stations. Imagine your frustration when you pull into one of them, and they are all being used, and there is a huge wait to get charged. Or how about pulling into a smaller area and half are broken, and there is a huge wait for the rest of them. 

You can only hope and pray that the hotel you chose for the night has working chargers, and they are not being used for hours and you have to wait.

No thank you. I'll stick to my gas powered dinosaur for the rest of my driving days.

How Real is Reality TV? 

I like to watch certain reality TV show, mostly about cars (restoring, buying & selling) and home building. I've been quite lucky that I got to meet some of those car builders that I saw on MAX.

The first people I got to meet was Amanda and Joe Martin from "Iron Resurrection". they are based out of the Johnson City, TX outside of Dallas. When I met them, I had just finished watching Season 5, with two more to go. I asked if/when there was going to be another season, and they didn't know yet. They are about as real, and nice as you hoped they would be. I bought a t-shirt, which they signed along with a picture. I wanted to ask a million questions, but with a line of behind me, it was kind of tough.

Next up was Bill Carlton from "Texas Metal." His shop, Ekstensive is located in Houston, TX. Unfortunately, he didn't bring any t-shirts with him, but I did get an autographed photo. I asked him a couple of questions about the show, including when there would be another season. His answer was the same, that things were up in the air at WarnerDiscovery, and he had no idea when there would be another season.

One of my favorite home renovation show was/is "Good Bones." They had 8 seasons, and after looking them up on the internet, it turns out there is some personal turmoil going on. The show starred Mina Starsiak Hawk, and her mother Karen Starsiak. 

For all the seasons, they appeared to be a loving mother and daughter, but the truth is that during the last season, their relationship was strained, and now they don't communicate with each other. In additon, Mina and her half brother Tad also aren't talking, as she implied he was toxic and needed to work on himself.

What about the supporting cast of MJ (the designer), Cory (the project manager) and Auston (the all around construction guy)? 

There is a 3 episode season called "Good Bones, New Beginnings." The first episode is all about Mina closing her retail store, and wanted to sell the business headquarters. She and her husband Steve also bought a new home, and were counting on the money from the sale of the headquarters building to put into the new home. Unfortunately, that sale fell through, and she ended up renting it for 18 months instead.

MJ and Auston appeared in that episode, and no mention was ever made of Karen. I thought this was strange, and looked up was going on. Such family drama!

The next two episodes were all about Karen buying a home in Wilmington, North Carolina. Hmmm, what happened to her  husband Roger? It turns out they are getting divorced. Her intent was to retire there, but her son moved to Indianapolis, and took over her home, and Karen moved into the guest house over the garage.

So she didn't want to miss time with her family, including the new baby her daughter Kelsie has, she decided to split time between the two locations.

Helping her with the Wilmington house were MJ, Cory and Auston! These guys appear to be in the middle of mother and daughter, except for Cory.

So you have to wonder, what happened that was so bad that they are not speaking, and half the cast (Tad and Cory) aren't talking to Mina either?

Having my own problems with my late mother over the years, and losing a lot of time with her, I want to just yell at them to get over it. Doesn't Karen miss Mina's two kids as well?

So how real is reality TV?

Tattoo Life 

I got my first tattoo about 6 years ago for my late cats Domino and Daphne. It was very simple, just black with no colors. I had the heart, "D's" and eyes filled in this past March. There were no problems with it at all.

While I was in Florida for my mothers funeral in September 2023, I found a tattoo shop about 4 blocks from the hotel that had very good reviews. Since Jimmy Buffett died on September 1, and my mother died on September 9, I decided to get a tattoo to commemorate both of them.

Since Buffett fans are called parrott heads, naturally I had to get a parrott, along with a margarita. The bubbles are from his song "Bubbles Up" found on his last album, "Equal Strain on All Parts." I took it a step further, and put Mom, Dad and JB inside the bubbles.

I had that done on a Friday, and got home late Sunday. On Monday, I noticed some swelling, and redness. I got an appointment with a Primary Care Doctor at my regular practice, and lucky me, I had cellulitis. It's a very bad skin infection that can get into the blood and cause sepsis. The doctor gave me Bactrim, a strong antibiotic and it started to work within a couple of days.

In March 2024, I decided to add on to it, and went to a local Long Island tattoo shop. I also got a tattoo for my girls. The angel fish is for my older daughter, and the dolphin is for my younger daughter. They are swimming around a blue moon.

 

I added on the water, fin, beach and the lost shaker of salt. (IYKYK) Lucky me, I got cellulitis yet again, and instead of waiting for an appointment at the office, I did a video visit, and got a very nice lady doctor from an NYU office in NYC. She looked at the redness and agreed that I had it again, and gave me another prescription for Bactrim. It worked yet again, and within a few days it was all cleared up.

The third time's a charm, right? When I saw my regular PCP for my quarterly check up in September, I asked for a prescription of Bactrim, since I was going to get another tattoo in November. I added on the lizard, palm tree and flip flops, and on my left arm I put on a microphone since I was in radio and still do and internet radio show.

(Notice the lizard at the bottom left corner)

(There's the lone palm with flip flops on the bottom right)

(My 3" microphone)

After 2 days, they started to get red and swollen again. I took the Bactrim and had an allergic reaction to it! I got a rash in a couple of places, along with some sensitivity on my chest. I just can't catch a break.

I went to see the PCP who had helped me the first time, and luckily she didn't say "I told you so." She gave me a prescription for Amoxicillin 875 for 10 days.

After 3 days, it wasn't working, or so I thought. So she gave me Clindimycin which is a very powerful antibiotic. After 3 days of that, I woke up at 6:30 AM with a burning pain in my stomach. I drank some water, and woke up a couple of hours later. I took a Zantac and was better in an hour or so. 

I sent her a message telling her what happened, and I was going back on the Amoxicillin, which I still had 7 days worth. As of this writing, the redness and swelling has gone done considerably. If need be, I still have enough Clindimycin to finish it off.

Do you think I've learned my lesson? Yes indeed, no more tattoos for me. I can't go through this again!

 Mice Aren't Really Cute

About 11 years ago, we had a bit of a mouse problem. They seemed to be coming in from somewhere in the kitchen, and we had an exterminator come up, and for $400 he did a thermal scan of the house, and plugged up some holes with steel wool. 

Daphne the cat turned out to be a great mouser, and presented us with her catches. Sometimes we would find them under the bed, ugh.

But she ridded the house of them, and was quite proud of herself for doing that. You could tell how happy she was by the expression on her face.

So here we are again with a mouse problem, but this time they are in the basement. How are they getting in? I have no idea. I did put some steel wool outside under the back door and the side of the new porch to plug up some openings, so hopefully that will help.

My wife says she found droppings on the stove, but I haven't. You would figure with 3 cats, they would have caught some, but that hasn't happened yet.

I have set numerous glue traps in the basement, and they have done their job. I won't go into detail what I have done afterwards.

I just ordered some reusable traps and bait from Amazon, and am going out shortly to get more glue traps. The traps will go outside, and also inside, most likely in the bottom kitchen cabinets.

While I love Mickey Mouse, I hate these little mice that are invading the house.

Student Loans Are Legal Theft

When I was in college all those years ago, my student loan was about $10,000 which I had to pay off in 10 years, and the interest rate wasn't crazy high. I made that monthly payment and did the dance of joy when it was finally over.

These days, the interest rates are crazy, and I call it legal theft because of that. The students that are in debt over $100,000 because they went to medical or law school are working their butts off just to survive, and that debt will follow them for many, many years.

There's a very simple solution to this, and it isn't debt forgiveness by the government.

How about instead of having interest rates that are over 8% and compounding daily, make them low interest loans at around 2% that doesn't compound daily?

That makes paying off the loans much easier, and can end the predatory lending in that section of the banking industry.

My older daughter didn't take out a large loan, but the interest rate is making it seem like she did. 

This is the spot where the government should make changes. Forget about loan forgiveness that will never happen, just pass a law that has a ceiling for interest rates on student loans. 

A simple solution to a ridiculous problem.